{"id":1868,"date":"2010-11-04T09:17:58","date_gmt":"2010-11-04T13:17:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thegrowthcoach.com\/cincinnati\/being-overwhelmed-stops-most-business-owners-dead-in-their-tracks"},"modified":"2022-07-11T11:33:08","modified_gmt":"2022-07-11T15:33:08","slug":"being-overwhelmed-stops-most-business-owners-dead-in-their-tracks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thegrowthcoach.com\/cincinnati\/being-overwhelmed-stops-most-business-owners-dead-in-their-tracks","title":{"rendered":"Being OVERWHELMED Stops Most Business Owners Dead in Their\u00a0Tracks"},"content":{"rendered":"
This Growth Coach Blog focuses on the all-too-common feeling that stops most business owners and entrepreneurs dead in their tracks.\u00a0 The emotion that prevents most professionals from seizing greater success and personal fulfillment.\u00a0 The mental state that derails most small business owners from making necessary changes.\u00a0 What’s the prevalent feeling, emotion and mental state that often sabotages a better business and life?\u00a0 It’s called being OVERWHELMED.<\/strong> Being overwhelmed shuts down your will and appetite to make critical changes and it\u2019s like engaging an emergency brake on your goals, dreams, and greater results.<\/p>\n The Problem<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n As a business coach<\/a> for over 18 years, I have seen the best of business owners mentally and physically check out and shut down when confronted and surrounded by the sensation of being overwhelmed.<\/strong> In fact, that’s the time when small business owners especially need a business coach to help them cut through the feelings of dread, fear, complexity, confusion, and endless details.<\/p>\n As the founder of The Growth Coach<\/a>, a business coaching franchise<\/a> system, I too have suffered from bouts of feeling overwhelmed<\/strong>, especially as we’ve expanded throughout North America.\u00a0 Being overwhelmed is when the mind-numbing details of any contemplated and significant change immediately crush your appetite and motivation for that change.\u00a0 It’s when the thought of making a significant change feels and appears MUCH too big, too complicated, and too involved to move forward.\u00a0 You never really get going.\u00a0 Haven’t you felt overwhelmed at times?<\/strong><\/p>\n Each Growth Coach in over 140 markets sees this phenomenon all the time with their new business coaching clients<\/a>.\u00a0 These entrepreneurs are often stuck in a rut by their feelings of being overwhelmed.\u00a0 When most small business owners seriously consider a major change and improvement in their business and\/or life, they immediately dwell upon the countless details and action steps that will be required.\u00a0 Instead of focusing on the “pleasing outcomes” of the change, they focus on the “challenging process” of the change.\u00a0 Instead of focusing on the “why do it” (motivation), they jump ahead too far and too soon to the “how to do it” (methods).<\/strong><\/p>\n As a result, even before establishing the right reasons and motivation for the change, they are buried by the methods and minutia of the change.\u00a0 They suddenly feel overwhelmed and freeze up<\/strong>.\u00a0 That crushing, suffocating weight of being overwhelmed prevents them from moving forward to a better business and life.\u00a0 Their brains overload and shut down.\u00a0 So does their appetite and will to change.\u00a0 Again, this is a critical juncture when they need a Growth Coach more than ever to get them unstuck, back on the track and moving forward.<\/strong><\/p>\n Here’s a typical business coaching example.\u00a0 When a small business owner is asked a simple coaching question like, “What’s currently broken in your business and needs to be fixed?\u201d<\/strong>, he\/she usually rattles off several areas they would love to address now and improve.\u00a0 However, without even taking a first step, their mind plays a horrible trick on them.\u00a0 It instantaneously creates a scary horror movie of sensory overload with thousands of evil and frightening action steps to be tackled … they are in the overwhelmed zone.<\/strong><\/p>\n As such, the entrepreneur sees improving the business as a huge, complicated, exhausting, frightening and overwhelming undertaking.\u00a0 Why?\u00a0 They don’t focus enough on the “why do it” but instead jump into the “how to do it.”<\/strong> They end up dwelling on way too many details way too soon.\u00a0 They mistakenly believe that they need to know all the steps and all the answers BEFORE beginning.\u00a0 WRONG.\u00a0 Sadly, they get overwhelmed and paralyzed.<\/strong> Instead of working on improving the broken parts of the business, they play a game of denial and go back to their tension-relieving, status-quo routines … unless they have a Growth Coach to challenge them to march forward.<\/p>\n